Well, right for me. I love summer. But I live in Colorado, where humidity is minimal and the air gets cool at night. And I have central air.
For many lupus patients, summer can be a real drag—even if you’re not photosensitive. I often feel sick in the heat and know others do, too. But that doesn’t stop me from idealizing summer and setting unrealistic expectations about the wonderful summer I shall have (I’ve got a bit of Clark Griswold in me).
So here are my ideas on rules for a laid back summer. Add yours in the comments, please!
• Rule One. If you can order it online, order it online. I’m still surprised by the number of people who tell me they never shop online. After all, online ordering essentially turns boring errand-running into presents waiting at your front door. Plus, you save the $75 of extra crap you’d throw in the cart at Target. And, you can turn buyer’s remorse into a blame game (Amazon reviewer RunForestRun95 said this lipstick was the perfect shade of plum—it’s her fault I hate it).
• Rule Two. Auto-refill your prescriptions. You’d think in the last five years I would have found the 10 minutes necessary to set up automatic refills through my pharmacy. Nope. I almost always run out of my Plaquenil on a Friday, and it’s always when I’m out of refills. No more! Or, if you’re lucky enough to have the three month mail-in supply option through your insurer, maybe now’s the time to set it up!
• Rule Three. Plan 2-3 fun summer activities. Ones that mean a lot to you (and preferably, are easily rescheduled should you find yourself feeling unwell). For example, perhaps you won’t be broken-hearted to miss a trip to the water park, but it would make you really sad if you missed playing with your niece in the sprinklers. No one is able to pack enough fun into summer (and those who try often stress themselves out!). So my small list is full of simple things, like taking an evening walk to get ice cream and eating dinner on the deck. How about yours?
• Rule Four. Don’t skip meals. I’m not hungry in hot weather. And I know I feel better when I eat regularly. Although Rice Chex are square, three square meals, they do not make. So I’m going to make a list of easy-peasy meals and stock up the freezer. I’m trying to figure out my budget to see if signing up for a CSA (that’s community-supporting agriculture—and many deliver).
• Rule Five. Don’t let the extra daylight fool you. Just because the sun is awake doesn’t mean you need to be. If you’re like me, you still need winter-level rest, which means going to be when it’s light out. I recently drank a cup of iced coffee at 5 p.m. after waking up from a nap. Guess who found herself at Target at 9:30 p.m., loading up her cart with stuff from the Your Home Sucks Aisle? And guess who found herself stuck in bed most of the next day?
• Rule Six. Take a screen break. I have a screen problem. I want to be someone who does not need her phone glued to her backside, but I’m not. It stresses me out to have my phone—I dread the beep. It stresses me out to not have my phone. I need a break. My husband suggested I avoid screen time after work until our daughter goes to bed around 8. He thinks I can’t do it. Which is likely the only reason that I will succeed.
I hope you all have a happy, healthy summer filled with the things that make summer special for you. Thoughts on how to reduce stress? Share them below.